There are many men who love to chase women. They feel powerful as they find ways to attract her attention. Winning is when she has taken the bait and agreed to go out with them. It is unfortunate that the man is no longer interested in that particular woman after this point. Rather than honestly tell the woman they are no longer interested, many simply move on to the next woman. They will occasionally date the previous woman, but this is to strengthen their ego when the new prey is not responding to them. They love to chase, but do not have the guts to admit they aren't interested in a relationship. If a man is distant or suddenly has too many reasons not to go out much, recognize he was only in it for the thrill of the chase.